You ever see a great film, or hear a fantastic song, or just feel that incredible natural high on life? That's what it's all about to me, and structuring your mind, body, spirit, and life so that you can squeeze out as many of those moments from life as you can!!!!! Getting a fantastic woman in your life is a product of making your own self that way as well. It's the truth about attraction- you don't attract what you want, you attract that which you truly are on the deepest level.